{"id":2588,"date":"2023-01-17T22:30:39","date_gmt":"2023-01-17T22:30:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/anthonykgoodwin.com\/?p=2588"},"modified":"2023-01-18T17:43:01","modified_gmt":"2023-01-18T17:43:01","slug":"i-am-the-lemon-the-day-i-quit-football","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/anthonykgoodwin.com\/?p=2588","title":{"rendered":"I Am The Lemon: The Day I Quit Football"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Sometimes, we don\u2019t realize we\u2019re holding a lemon until it feels too late to make lemonade, and then we want to drop it and move on to something better. While trying out for Junior College (JUCO) football, I felt like the lemon.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I started playing football at seven and could not see myself doing anything else with my life. I was playing Madden, setting up cone drills in my front yard, and meeting up with our quarterback at a park to work on routes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image alignright size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/anthonykgoodwin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/RHS-825x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2591\" width=\"405\" height=\"503\" srcset=\"https:\/\/anthonykgoodwin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/RHS-825x1024.jpg 825w, https:\/\/anthonykgoodwin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/RHS-242x300.jpg 242w, https:\/\/anthonykgoodwin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/RHS-768x954.jpg 768w, https:\/\/anthonykgoodwin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/RHS-1237x1536.jpg 1237w, https:\/\/anthonykgoodwin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/RHS-1649x2048.jpg 1649w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 405px) 100vw, 405px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>A young me wanted to go to Florida State and play football like his idol, Warrick Dunn. During the summers of my junior and senior years, I attended a football camp at Fresno State University, and I became more aware of the competition throughout the country. I decided to attend Modesto Jr. College to continue playing and developing for two more years before jumping to a four year.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I have always been the little guy on the field but never let it set me back. I lived by the quote, \u201chard work beats talent when talent doesn\u2019t work hard.\u201d I was often chosen as a team captain from youth football to high school. I wasn\u2019t loud and vocal; I just worked hard. But the JUCO experience was much different.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The Spring ball starts with over 100 players hoping to join the team for the Fall. These are some of the best guys from around Central California and more. I make it through the Spring and Summer training. As Summer ends, some players get their pads, helmets, and numbers they\u2019ll wear for the team. A new player or two is sent to the equipment room daily to get their gear. Some days players are excused from the team entirely. A few weeks pass, and everyone has pads except another guy and me. The coach tells the two of us we\u2019re welcome to keep participating, hoping for a spot to open for us. I felt like the lemon.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That day was Aug 9, 2007. I know the date because it was my mother\u2019s birthday. My family was about to have dinner at Olive Garden, and I spent another four to five hours of my Summer trying to make a JUCO football team.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>After watching the film and hitting the weight room, the field portion of practice was about to begin. Once practice moved to the field; I couldn\u2019t participate because I wasn\u2019t in pads. It is embarrassing to show up day after day and not be counted in. I walked to my car and left as the rest of the team went out to the field. I was quitting. The coaches may not have directly cut me, but I felt I was cut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I joined my family for dinner, and they picked me up. They knew I was talented enough to play for this team. Despite my embarrassment and lack of confidence, my parents, past teammates, and coaches wouldn\u2019t let me quit on myself. I returned to practice the next day and earned my pads a few days after that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I was not a captain. I did not dominate the same way I did throughout the rest of my playing years, but I had fun, worked hard, and learned. I had some highlights here and there. I made great friends. I got to play those two years, and we won two Graffiti Bowl championships. The most important thing that happened to me at that time was I made a life-altering change. I became a Christian and dedicated my life to helping people through ministry. Going into my second year at MJC, I met someone between practices who invited me to church. That interaction forever changed the trajectory of my life. Now I can look back and see that I was the lemon being made into lemonade.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image alignleft size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/anthonykgoodwin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/mjc.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2589\" width=\"299\" height=\"199\" srcset=\"https:\/\/anthonykgoodwin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/mjc.jpg 450w, https:\/\/anthonykgoodwin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/mjc-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 299px) 100vw, 299px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I saw JUCO football as a stepping stone to being the next Warrick Dunn, but instead, it was the first step in giving my life purpose past any temporal physical talent. Now I spend all of my time listening and caring for people in all areas of their life. I quit football for a day. People who cared about me brought me back, leading to a forever change in my life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Don\u2019t give up.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes, we don\u2019t realize we\u2019re holding a lemon until it feels too late to make lemonade, and then we want to drop it and move on to something better. While trying out for Junior College (JUCO) football, I felt like the lemon. I started playing football at seven and could not see myself doing anything &hellip;<\/p>\n<p class=\"read-more\"> <a class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/anthonykgoodwin.com\/?p=2588\"> <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">I Am The Lemon: The Day I Quit Football<\/span> Read More &raquo;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2590,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","_mi_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[15],"tags":[],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":["https:\/\/anthonykgoodwin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/renocolts.jpg",1194,1817,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/anthonykgoodwin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/renocolts-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/anthonykgoodwin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/renocolts-197x300.jpg",197,300,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/anthonykgoodwin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/renocolts-768x1169.jpg",768,1169,true],"large":["https:\/\/anthonykgoodwin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/renocolts-673x1024.jpg",673,1024,true],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/anthonykgoodwin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/renocolts-1009x1536.jpg",1009,1536,true],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/anthonykgoodwin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/renocolts.jpg",1194,1817,false]},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"anthonykgoodwin","author_link":"https:\/\/anthonykgoodwin.com\/?author=1"},"uagb_comment_info":1,"uagb_excerpt":"Sometimes, we don\u2019t realize we\u2019re holding a lemon until it feels too late to make lemonade, and then we want to drop it and move on to something better. 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