My wife and I celebrated seven years of marriage this last Saturday.
I recently read a book called “The Dream Manager” by Matthew Kelly. The big idea is to think, plan, and write out goals for several areas of your life. They could be as big as international vacations or as small as implementing healthier life habits.
In 2013/2014, I did this, and it made a huge difference in the trajectory of my life. Those steps I took then have gotten me to where I am at today.
After reading the book, everything was familiar, but I realized I hadn’t intentionally dreamed since then. Now I’m married, live in Texas, have three kids, and have many other responsibilities. I’ve been less focused on goals and more focused on making ends meet.
Back to the anniversary, I had a meat and cheese board dinner with my wife and sans kids. I got us three moleskin journals from Target and shared with her my desire to recalibrate our life, love, and ambitions. We listened to some of her favorite songs, snacked, and reflected on where we are and what we have. Then we turned the page and began to scribble out big hope and silly selfish things. I want a tattoo above my right kneecap of a California Bear (CA) wearing a cowboy hat (TX). We also want to see Europe. It lacked traditional anniversary romantic gestures, but it accomplished something deeper by intentionally getting us on the same page.
I hope we look at those pieces of paper every quarter to add new ideas, cross off accomplishments, and steer us toward growth, love, and excitement for life. I believe God used that personal initiative in 2014, and I’m praying He does it again.
Maybe you can try this idea out for yourself or a loved one. If you need help planning, processing, or keeping yourself accountable, then please reach out, friends!